The Un-worshipped Durga

प्रथमं शैलपुत्री च द्वितीयं ब्रह्मचारिणी।

तृतीयं चन्द्रघंटेति कूष्माण्डेति चतुर्थकम् ।।

पंचमं स्क्न्दमातेति षष्ठं कात्यायनीति च ।

सप्तमं कालरात्रीति महागौरीति चाष्टमम् ।।

नवमं सिद्धिदात्री च नवदुर्गाः प्रकीर्तिताः ।।

I have grown up listening to and chanting this Navdurga mantra. Especially during the Navratri days. This mantra states the 9 forms of goddess Durga / Parvati that are worshipped by millions of Hindu’s worldwide.Not sure how these 9 forms became the “to-be worshiped” form of god during these particular 9 days but to me there is a Durga in each and every woman that I know !

Today’s woman is a true “दशभुजा” ( The one with 10 hands).She can cook delicious meal, serve to the family, clean up , load the laundry etc. all while discussing the business strategy on a conference call

She is the “Shailaputri” when she stands up for the honor and pride of her children, husband and house.

She is “Brahmacharini” when she devotes herself to whatever she does be it being a mom or being a corporate person.

She is “Chandraghanta” when she can do anything to protect her loved ones .She does it everyday by keeping everything around them neat, clean,sanitized, fresh and away from any danger.

She is “Kushmanda” when she bares the pain of giving birth to the new life and nurtures that life selflessly until her last breath.

She is “Skandamata” when she showers her love,affection and care on each & every person in the family.

She is “Katyayani” when she stands up to protect herself from those who emotionally or physically try to demoralize her.

She is “Kalratri” when she becomes a “kaal” for those who have evil eye on her nest that she calls home.

She is “Mahagauri” when she becomes the beautiful soulmate of her spouse, a loving mom for her children, a caring daughter/daugther-in-law for her parents/in-laws and a best friend for her cousins.

She is “Siddhadatri” when the she converts the house into the “home” for her family.

These durga’s are all around us in form of our moms , wives, sisters, co-workers , house helpers but have you seen any of them being worshiped ? What is the meaning of Pooja (worship)? It is the form of appreciating the goodness and recognizing the person’s worth.

I would like to worship all these forms of Durga’s in my life .. My mom to start with , my sisters, my friends, my aunts ,my cousins, my female co-workers and all those who blessed me in numerous ways.

I think worshiping these real life Durga’s, is equivalent to worshiping those idols in the temples. The real durga lies in each and every woman. It is important for her loved ones to recognize her worth and worship her by appreciating her efforts. She just wants those few caring words for herself. Not on a special day or few special days but every day.

It is also important for each one of us ladies to believe in ourselves so that the world around us starts believing in us. We should all stand for each other at all times because in my opinion no durga should remain un-worshiped !

Under the weather kind of day

Have you ever met a person that loves Monday? Especially for those working in corporate five days a week schedule, Mondays are always most dreadful days of the week. No matter if you are a freshman or have been doing it for your entire life ! It’s hard to find a person who waits for a Monday.. unless of-course it’s your day off in the week.

Oh I know, I know there are people who don’t accept it and try to keep the positive attitude and all but honestly do they really look forward to Mondays? Well, at least I’m not one of those and I have no guilt in accepting that I hate Mondays. I’ve been working in corporate world for almost 19 years now but never have I ever loved Mondays (when its not a holiday).

Let me tell you a story of one such Monday. As usual I started getting the “Monday morning blues” on Sunday afternoon and not to mention, I had already mentally spoiled my Sunday evening thinking about the 7 meetings starting 8am the next day. All of a sudden, I started feeling bloated ! Was it the dinner party last night? May be I ate little too much of my favorite appetizer Or probably the drink. My stomach started rumbling and I was not sure if I could attend the important meeting that I myself scheduled (actually moved from last week) for tomorrow.

After trying hard to fall asleep for hours I finally was able to fall asleep sometimes after midnight and when I opened my eyes next morning it was already bright and sunny outside. I got up hurriedly.

Wait ! what happened to my alarm? Oh.. looks like I forgot to set it up last night among my “Monday overthinking”. It’s 7:45am already ? How can I get ready for the 8am meeting ? I need some time for my morning chores before I can get online. After all working from home doesn’t mean that you hop out of the bed and sit in front of the computer.

“Stop thinking Pooja and get moving..” I said to myself but my body had some different plans. It was not letting me move. My neck was stiff as a rock. I tried hard to get up but while struggling with my neck, I got a cramp in my calves. So badly that the cramp in my legs and stiffness in my neck threw me down right back into the bed.

I quickly realized that I’m not going to make it for 8am and was very doubtful if I could be functional for the 8:30 or the other meetings following it. That was the moment, when I felt super excited even in pain. The excitement of calling in sick for the most dreadful day of the week “Monday”. I didn’t even bother to try waking up again .. just grabbed my work phone drafted an OOO message and declined all the meetings for the day ! I can’t explain the joy of declining all the meetings for the day and looking at my all open outlook calendar with a purple OOO background color. I made a best decision for myself that morning and I was going to make the best of this decision today. For once, I was trying to “love” Monday

I decided to sleep in more. There is no rush now. I won’t be able to go for a walk anyways with my hurting neck and cramping leg so why not get more sleep? Yes !! but my body was not going to make it that easy for me. I tried super hard but I couldn’t go back to sleep. My dear husband going shower and getting ready for work was not at all helping either. Well, he didn’t know my plan so I didn’t blame him !

At around 8:30 after struggling hard , I got out of bed and by the time I got down to the kitchen for morning tea, it was past 9:30. Who knows what was I doing up in the bedroom for 1 hr but anyways it was my day to relax so I got my tea and went outside in the patio on that beautiful morning! my neck and leg pain was automatically eased after that and I was actually feeling better just by not doing anything

Suddenly my dear husband who was also working from home called me and asked me to go up to the bedroom again! I was in no mood to do that but he pleaded ( which rarely happens btw ) and I went upstairs again only to find a nice hot bath ready for me with scented candles and peaceful music around. It was magical ! I was actually loving this Monday.

As soon as I got into the shower after soaking in the bath tub a shiver ran through my body because the water was ice-cold ! I mean I get that it was winter but what happened to the water heater ? I came out without showering and started calling my husband who was now in his work meeting so couldn’t come out to help

Alas !! I just dried myself and got back to kitchen to fix something for lunch ! I was starving and just then I noticed water dripping on my head from the kitchen ceiling. Now I had to call my husband out of his meeting to check what’s going on! He went up to attic to find it full of hot water everywhere and couldn’t figure out what’s going on.. and then started a search for plumbing company who can send someone urgently

We both were hungry but in between calling various companies, their hold times and 100 questions we just couldn’t order anything either.

At around 3pm we finally got someone who said they will try to come between 6-8pm. By this time our kitchen floor was a huge water puddle and just because the existing problems were not enough I slipped and bammm!!! hit my head hard on the cabinet corner.. I was numb couldn’t feel the pain but could see the blood dripping on the floor. The water puddle around me started turning red and I was dizzying

And just then I woke up with my 5:30am alarm.. the dreadful Monday , all the meetings starting at 8am were all going to be there and no I was not going to have an Under the weather kind of day !

Experience the Shadow

21st August 2017 : The day when I experienced a magic

You must have heard about solar eclipse, the diamond ring, the totality , the Baily’s beads. You must also have seen them online on YouTube, NASA’s broadcast and many other channels.You should have watched this most marvelous and awe-inspiring nature’s event many times too. But have you experienced “Being under the shadow” yet?

” हा सूर्य आणि हा जयद्रथ ” a famous Marathi quote from a story in Mahabharata, when lord Shri Krishna created a shadow of his Sudarshan Chakra over the sun to create an illusion of sunset aka a total solar eclipse. This was to help Arjuna kill Jaydrath and complete his revenge of his son’s death. I heard this story numerous times as a kid but honestly never realized the feeling everyone on the kurukshetra might have had until I experienced this myself.

I’m & I’ll be forever thankful to Amol for pushing me through my denial to visit the right place at the right time under right conditions. He knew it from his past experience with “Khagol Mandal – A mumbai based group of astronomy enthusiasts” . He had experienced it and rightly so wanted to me and Agastya to get the same experience. But I was not completely wrong with my denial. Only most stupid person will pay $945 for a night’s stay at a shady motel in Jackson Hole, WY. Yes it was us who paid that much for one night’s stay at that place. We tried really hard since January of that year to find a decent place near the path of totality from where we can quickly get to a spot to watch the eclipse but little did we know that there are thousands of other folks who were desperately looking for the same. In fact, they did it much before us. On 22nd August 2016, the Teton parks department opened the reservations for August 2017 and on the same day all the park lodges, camp sites were all booked.But good news was for whatever cost, we found the right place to stay on the night of 20th August.

The partial shadow of the moon started appearing around 10 and we were all set with our camera, camcorder and phone to capture the amazement. It was summer and it was sunny and HOT !Around 11:30 the baily’s beads started appearing and following that was the diamond ring. The temperature dropped by almost 30 degrees and the birds started chirping like they do at the dusk. And suddenly it was all dark… the street lights were turned on automatically… Amol was managing the big camera and the lenses so he handed me the camcorder to record but I was stunned and only thing the I said “Do hell with the recording !! ” And I did experience one of the most amazing couple of minutes in my life.

You do not have to be a scientist Or an astronomer, or a millionaire with fancy telescope to enjoy this experience. But on August 21st, 2017, I realized that being under this shadow of the moon, is one of the most special experiences of anyone’s life. Looking forward to experience this amazement again on April 8th 2024 from right here in Austin,TX.

5 reasons why you should be a Certified Product Manager

20th August 2020 the day when I registered to become a Certified Product Manager. I was not mentally ready to take the efforts. I wasn’t ready to study with my full time job and personal responsibilities. Only reason why I wanted to study Product Management was because I knew my years of working methods as Project Manager need to be changed to be a successful Product Manager.

I did my research about the certification but, Google gave me mixed feedback ! The product management experts in my network gave me mixed feedback ! Bottom line, I was still not sure if it was worth it but I decided to go for it. On December 10th,2020 I became the Certified Product Manager!

Today 8 months later , I’m a part of Product Management group and have realized why it was all worth it! If you are like me who is struggling to decide if you should get certified, here are some of the benefits I realized myself.

  1. Certification is the proof that you have the essential knowledge in the field Whether you have years of experience in the industry or you are just entering into the role of product manager, having a certification is a proof that you have the essential knowledge to perform the job of product manager
  2. Certification supplements your experience your industry experience before entering into the product management world is always invaluable but certification helps you be up-to-date on what is current in the industry and it also helps you refresh the knowledge gained from the experience.
  3. Adds weight to your resume In today’s job market , as soon as a position becomes available there will be thousands of resume landing in the recruiters inbox. It is impossible to go through each and every one those resumes to find the right candidate to interview. A resume with a certification seal on it definitely stands out among those with just experience but no formal education in the field
  4. Shows your competence inside your own organization Even inside your own organization, a certified product manager knows the latest industry trends and has cutting edge knowledge of product management world compared to those who have not been pursuing any education.
  5. Self-confidence Above all of these, the satisfaction and self – confidence is the most invaluable benefit of being a certified professional. It is a proof to yourself that you can achieve anything. Nothing is impossible when you put your mind to it

Do you agree or disagree ? Do you have some more benefits to share ?How did the certification helped you in your career?

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